"Is love an art? Then it requires knowledge and effort." ― Erich Fromm
"But in giving he cannot help bringing something to life in the other person, and this which is brought to life reflects back to him.” ― Erich Fromm
"The only person who is educated is the one who has learned how to learn and change." ― Carl Rogers


Learn to listen for the underlying values in your partner's language.

Imagine understanding your partner’s values and how those values motivate his or her decisions.

Break your conflict cycle in short, easy sessions:

        1. Identify your MOTIVATIONAL VALUE system.
        2. Understand your CONFLICT DYNAMIC.
        3. Prevent conflict by promoting your PERSONAL STRENGTHS.

Advantage:  An opportunity specially favorable to success, placing one in an improved position.

Dynamic:  A force which acts to unite or separate its parts, motivating development or stability.



  • Newly engaged or newly committed partners.
  • Newly married couples.
  • Couples looking to improve their relationship.
  • Couples considering counseling or wanting  a supplement to therapy.
  • Couples who want a way to learn about their conflict patterns without the depth and commitment of therapy.
  • Couples who want a “lite” way to learn about each other in a fun and non-threatening environment.